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Parenting Articles
by Anne Beaty
Meet Anne Beaty
Parenting author and
extraordinary mom
It is with great
pleasure and pride that I introduce Anne Beaty as a new writer on the
parenting front.
Anne is a dear
friend of mine. She is kind, generous, intelligent, articulate, fun
and a very wise mom. After months of
arm-twisting, Anne has finally agreed to share her wisdom with us by
writing pertinent, well-written and timely parenting and family articles which I
think you will love and from which you will learn much.
Read on for
great advice, inspiration and plenty of "ah ha" moments.
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Communication
"At its most basic,
communication is the exchange of thoughts, ideas, stories, etc.,
between two or more people. It is the key to understanding another
person; it is the balm that soothes all wounds."
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Fear &
Respect
"As parents, we have to ask ourselves: do we want our children to
fear us or respect us. 99 percent of us, I believe, will say ‘of
course we don’t want them to fear us, of course we want them to
respect us’, but we deal with our children in a way that is
guaranteed to instill fear. And, unfortunately, we do not usually
respect that which we fear."
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How Children
Learn
"We all know the truism that children learn what they live. A child
raised in an abusive household is many times more likely to become an
abuser than a child raised in a non-abusive household. Children who
are molested are at great risk of becoming molesters. Children who are
constantly bullied at home, will tend to be bullies at school."
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Unconditional Love
Unconditional love has two parts to it: that you have taken the time
and effort to actually understand who that child really is, and that
you love them without reservation. It does not mean you have to love,
or even like, everything they say or do, but that you have grasped the
essence of that human being, and you love it, no matter what.
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Anne Beaty is the
single mother of one son, who graduated from Vassar college in
2005. She was a Special Education T.A. for the Los Angeles Unified
School District for 10 years, middle and high school, where she
dealt with learning and behaviorally challenged inner-city,
minority, and immigrant students, most of whom wouldn't have known
a manner if it bit them on the leg. At the moment, she is raising
her 16 year old niece. Email Anne at: Anne
Beaty
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All
articles on these pages are copyright: Anne Beaty 2005. No portion
of these works may be reprinted without permission from the
author.
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